1. sex do not equal to love.
sex and love is two very different things. sex do not have the same value to love.. when we love someone... it is not worth it to give everything we got. ( in case we have some kind of legal relation exp married, it's oke laa ) especially for girls..... cause once we lose it... done. we'll never get it back. so.. love with brain, not only with heart... cause heart cannot think and without thinking, u'll lose everything. sooo... pepatah melayu mengatakan.. sebelum nasi menjadi bubur.... baliklah ke pangkal jalan... do not be among the girls whom have to do abortion and throwing away babies because of that one mistake.
2. teach your kids nicely.
children do what they see their parents do. do not hit or punish your children too much.. that is not the way to teach your children. talk nicely. behave nicely from the beginning. remember that children always do what they see their parents do cause parents are the real teacher in a child's life. hitting them with rattan many times until it gets swollen... until it bleeds.. until they can barely speak because they cried too much.. that is wrong..! when your children do wrong thing... don't teach them the wrong way... they'll only get worst. talk nicely... tell them that what they are doing is wrong.. tell them the consequences if they keep doing it... it's not wrong to hit them sometimes... but hitting also got limits. so don't make your children be much worse by teaching them the wrong way.
i also have history kena rotan by my dad...well... because i'm so naughty laa. but... that is where i learned to be more of a thinker between what is good and what is not. and that is where i learned that punishing children also got limits. but... hitting my children, in the future laa (hehe) is not something that i will do.
see this video. i haven't seen it til the last part... i can't stand it..
